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 Struggle of the Sexes:
While most people acknowledge
that opposites attract, they are also quick to point out the men and
women generally tend to be different in a number of ways. Although
this is basically true, it isn’t an excuse to not have romance
in your marriage. Men and women can both be romantic with their spouse
once they understand the likes and dislikes of their partner. Sometimes
it just takes a little patience, attention, and effort on your part
to get things going and to make romance happen.
For the husbands that
have no idea where to begin with their wives, you can always start
with a day at the mall. Prepare a shopping list of specific items
or stores you know she either frequents or would enjoy receiving a
gift from. If you still feel quite clueless as to what you buy your
wife, here is your own shopping list guaranteed to thrill her. Begin
at a bath shop and buy her lotion, bath gel, and/or powder. Next,
visit a lingerie shop. If you are unsure of your wife’s size,
ask the employees for help. There is no need to be embarrassed and
they are more than happy to assist you in your search. Locate a fine
and reputable jewelry store. If you are unsure of your wife’s
ring size, stick to a necklace, bracelet, or brooch. Stop by a liquor
store and pick up her favorite bottle of wine or a bottle of champagne
for no particular reason other than to celebrate each other. Your
next stop should be the flower shop where you can pick out her favorite
flowers or a simple rose. Finally, you will need a card to accompany
all of your purchases. If you prefer, you can make your own card or
write a personalized love letter instead. Make sure that all of her
gifts are wrapped separately and enjoy the pleasure you both will
get from your efforts!
Now for the wives who
want to do something extra special and romantic for their husbands.
You can either buy him a romantic card or write him a personal love
letter before sealing the envelope and sealing it with a kiss. Make
sure you use the reddest lipstick you have for the kiss and then mail
it to him. For a variation on this idea, spray a card or note with
your perfume. Try and do your best not to become a choice between
him and his passions, whether they are sports, computers, etc. He
was once a huge fan of yours and you simply have to remind him of
that at make it worth his while to be your fan once again. If you
have trouble understanding your man in your relationship, take the
time to discover what it is about him that makes him who he is. Robert
Bly and Rachel Snyder have some wonderfully entertaining and insightful
books to assist you on this subject. Not only will you be able to
understand your husband a little better, but you will be able to increase
your intimacy level and trust as a result of your efforts.
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