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 Romantic Reception:
Romance is all around
you. You simply have to know where to begin looking for it! With a
society filled with instant food, instant messaging, and instant results,
it’s difficult to think about having to actually do something
on your own without assistance. Romance is work without the assistance
of a computer or other electronic device that can make it easier on
you. When you are dealing with romance, you are working on a relationship
with another human being and one-on-one attention and contact cannot
be substituted. Your mission to accept as one of the newest hopeless
romantics is to truly listen to your spouse. You aren’t just
listening to him or her, though. You are really hearing what they
are saying to you. He or she is your greatest romantic idea resource
available and you can move on to other resources from there.
First of all, if you
are searching for romantic ideas it is a good idea to keep a small
notebook or voice recorder on your being so that you can make note
of your ideas to use at a later date. Now is the time that you heighten
your awareness level as to what you hear and see with your spouse.
Once you feel you have a good idea or feel for what he or she may
enjoy, you can move on to other resources.
Take a look at your
favorite magazine or newspaper. You will find that you most likely
have a particular way you read the paper or skim through your magazine.
Go back and look at everything you may have missed while skimming
or flipping through the pages. Even one page with an incredibly romantic
idea for you is worth the extra few minutes it takes to browse your
reading material. Eventually, your eye will start skimming for this
type of information automatically.
Pay attention to your
spouse and what he or she pays attention to. If he is incredibly proud
of his Italian heritage, it isn’t exactly a hobby but an interest
that can spark all kinds of romantic ideas for him. Some of the most
common interests’ spouses notice with each other can include
pets, comics, college, movies, books, golf, puzzles, food, shopping,
clothes, music, specific wars throughout history and more. Can you
think of something like these suggestions that you connect with your
spouse? Would your spouse be able to say what your interests include?
It could be an interesting exercise to have a discussion about with
your spouse!
When you have ‘received’
all of the information you feel you need from and about your spouse,
it’s time to tweak your reception. You probably have an extensive
list of information, but many items can most likely be fine-tuned
even further. If his favorite color is green, do you know exactly
what shade of green is his favorite? She loves chocolate, but does
she love dark or milk chocolate more? Can you prepare your spouse’s
coffee for them to perfection?
Open up the reception
in your ears to a whole new way of discovering your spouse through
interests and romance. Don’t discount anything and never stop
listening. Your discovery and learning process should never end!
Along with your discovery
and learning process will do a constant romantic thought process?
Put that thought process to good use!
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