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 Romance, Romance Everywhere!:
Has timing always been
an issue for you no matter what you try to do? Maybe you’re
someone who can be creative, but you’re not sure when would
be the perfect time to surprise your husband or wife. Timing can be
crucial depending on the sort of romance you have in mind with your
spouse. Sometimes you must plan romance while other times you have
to always keep a watchful eye out for the right moment to present
itself. You might think you are blind to those moments or you simply
don’t have any instinct for timing, but here are a few ideas
to get you started and hopefully find your own groove.
Guys, when you arrive
at home with your wife, you can take this opportunity to ‘sweep
her off of her feet’- literally! Have you ever carried your
wife over the threshold of your house? Well, it’s a gesture
that never gets old. The timing can be tricky with this one, though.
Don’t do it while either of you have a bag or bags in your hands
or while she’s on her cell phone. While the women may feel that
this is an appropriate action to take with their men, it most likely
won’t work. If you feel you must give it a try, more power to
you!
Create a home that
is your romantic getaway location for both of you. Always keep a number
of items that you can use in order to transform your home into a romantic
hideaway. Keep a box filled with romantic scented candles, music,
flowers and wine and keep some sensuous foods in the kitchen at all
times. These can include strawberries, grapes, whipped cream, and
anything else that sparks your imagination.
When one spouse leaves
a trail of clothes from the door all the way to the bedroom where
they are waiting, it is always acceptable and a hit! You can also
use a different version of this classic by leaving a trail of lit
candles that lead to the bedroom. As always, the brightest burning
flame should be that of the person waiting in the bedroom. Don’t
be surprised if your spouse’s flame matches yours by the time
he or she reaches the bedroom!
For romantic moments
at the workplace, simply take the time at work to stop, call your
spouse, and tell them that you love them. Copy your face or a part
of you body on the copy machine and send it to him or her with a funny
or suggestive note. Send him or her flowers at the office or to the
restaurant where he or she is having lunch. Mail him or her; your
contact information on a Rolodex card with a memo saying, “Love
Source. Call when lonely or horny.”
Finally, make sure
you check his or her schedule ahead of time before attempting this
next move. Pack a pillow and a blanket in a picnic basket and go to
his or her office during the lunch hour. Tell his or her secretary
to hold all calls, lock the office door, and turn off every source
of outside communication. Make love on the desk. It will most likely
be some of the best sex you both have had in a long time and could
become a habit!
While it might be tempting
to inundate your spouse with waves of romance, it would be similar
to how you might feel if it were Christmas every day. The romance
just wouldn’t seem that special any more.
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