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Relationship Favorites:
When it comes to your
relationship with your spouse and attempting to improve your marriage,
you will most likely begin learning more and more about each other.
This is a great way to get ideas for romantic planning as well as
gifts for your spouse. Begin having conversations about your likes
and dislikes with each other. Not only will taking about these things
bring you closer together, but they can also help you express your
love in an effective manner and buy gifts that he or she is sure to
enjoy. If you want to do this in another, yet obvious way, you can
make a specific checklist for both of you to complete. It is likely
to cause all kinds of laughter and jokes at each other’s expense,
but this way you will have a concrete list on hand.
When you consider the
number of likes and dislike a person can have for just about everything
in the world, it can seem a bit overwhelming. Start with simple things
like his or her favorite color, lucky number(s), favorite music, favorite
flower, favorite child’s book, favorite current author, favorite
singer, favorite song, favorite poet, and favorite poem. You can then
move on to their favorite food, favorite fruit, favorite vegetable,
favorite type of chocolate, favorite cookie, favorite ice cream flavor,
favorite snack food, favorite fast food and favorite restaurant.
Next, find out what
your partner’s favorite movie is (you might want to make this
a ‘top five’ question- most people can’t choose
just one movie.) Then move on to find out that his or her favorite
actress and actor are their favorite romantic movie, comedy movie,
musical, action movie, and erotic movie. If you and or your spouse
enjoy theater, now is the time to find out the specific of what they
like about it. You can find out what their favorite play is, what
their favorite show tune is, and even who their favorite Broadway
actor is.
Favorites can span
all types of categories including sports and arts. Find out about
their favorite artist, favorite style of artwork, favorite sculpture,
and favorite painting. Ask about his or her favorite sport to watch
as well as their favorite sport to play. Take it further and find
out about his or her favorite Olympic sport, favorite teams, and even
their favorite board game.
You can find out about
more personal things like his or her favorite foreplay activity (both
giving and receiving), their favorite position for making love, their
favorite love making location, favorite sexy outfit (both his and
hers), favorite place to be touched, favorite place to be kissed,
favorite time of day to make love and their favorite fantasy. Find
out their favorite place to shop for lingerie, their favorite color
of lingerie and favorite style of lingerie.
Make note of what most
might consider being small things like your spouse’s favorite
way to relax, his or her favorite television show, their favorite
scent, favorite perfume or cologne, favorite beverage, favorite joke,
favorite holiday, favorite day of the week and so much more. Take
all of this information and treat it as the valuable resource that
it is. Use it, update it, and tweak it as often as necessary.
Never have any expectations
of your spouse when you make a romantic gesture. Expectations completely
negate romance. Any gesture that is made with expectations or anticipation
of a reward of some kind is not romantic at all. It’s more like
bribery.
My good Marriage Sponsors;
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