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 Playing with Love:
You are never too old
to play games. Well, there are some games you shouldn’t be playing
at this point in your relationship. You shouldn’t be playing
on his or her guilt and you shouldn’t be manipulating in order
to get what you want. Those games are unacceptable, inappropriate
and they will only serve to deteriorate any trust and respect that
might exist in your marriage. The kind of games I’m talking
about includes having fun with each other. You can have fun with each
other every single day you are married! Fun only takes a moment or
you can take much longer if you have the time. Fun and love go hand
in hand as well as allow a partnership to grow in laughter and trust.
Start playing games
with each other on a regular basis. You can play board games or you
can make up games of your own. Try role-playing games! They can be
plain silly or they can turn into very intimate encounters. The wonderful
thing about playing games with your spouse is that you learn a great
deal about each other while building trust. You can even reenact wonderful
times you’ve had together. If you had an incredible first date,
go back to the place you had your date, relive the moments and even
try to reenact the most special moments.
You may not know about
it, but you might actually know a couple whom already plays a very
common yet private game among couples. It’s basically a ‘hide
and seek’ game that goes on, well, forever! You and your spouse
choose an object and you each take turns to ‘return’ it
to the other in creative ways. Some spouses have had the objects expressed
mailed to them, others hid it in a place special to their spouse and
other couples used intermediate individuals to deliver the object
like flight attendants or waiters.
True trust can come
from playing games in the bedroom- as well as a ton of fun! Start
your morning by planning to make love that night. Try to keep ‘foreplay’
going all day long. Call your spouse with reminders and teasers about
what is going to happen, what you want to do and how your partner
makes you feel. By the time you both reach the bedroom, you will both
feel as if you’ve spent hours at foreplay.
Play some fun games
while you’re out with your spouse. When you are at the mall,
commit to kissing every time you see another couple holding hands.
(Unfortunately, you might not be kissing as often as you think.) Kiss
at each stop sign or stop light. Make love at unusual locations like
changing rooms, rest stops, or restrooms.
Role-playing is a popular
game among adults. One of the most popular role-playing games is to
pretend you aren’t married and you are having an affair with
each other. Carry out all of the actions you think might be involved
in an affair including how you would act, what you would do and where
you would go.
Devote a day to both
of you as a couple. Take some of these ideas or some of your own ideas
and use them in order to spend time together, learn about each other,
and laugh as hard as you can.
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