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Outrageous Love:
Does your spouse like
things a little over the top? Maybe he or she loves things that are
truly outrageous. Or maybe it’s you that loves the outrageous
situation or event. Romance can be suited to your ‘over the
top’ or ‘extreme’ tastes. Be outrageous and do something
completely unexpected in order to surprise and romance your spouse.
If you’re looking to overdo something slightly, do something
traditional in a big way. When you think of or come across a romantic
idea, magnify it with your imagination and do it as big as you think.
Singing to your partner
is one of the most romantic things that you can do. Why not take your
spouse to a karaoke bar and surprise (maybe even shock!) him or her
by singing a song that has special meaning for both of you. Enjoy
him or her watching you with laughter and possibly tears in their
eyes. It is outrageous enough to never forget, unless you both hit
the bars every week.
Think about something
your spouse loves. I mean that they really, really love. If he or
she loves Hershey Kisses, find the biggest glass jar you can and fill
it with his or her favorite kind. Mix and match flavors for a twist!
If you feel that the largest jar isn’t enough, remove all of
his or her clothes from a dresser drawer and fill the empty drawer
to the brim with his or her favorite treat. Leave a little note on
top expressing your love for your spouse.
Commit to making love
as often as possible with your spouse for an extended period of time.
Change your attitude about how you view sex at the end of a long,
tiring day. Try looking forward to it and make sure you make love
every day and/or night for at least a week. Try to go for a month.
Among most married couples today, this is truly outrageous!
Set the timer on your
watch or cell phone so that it goes off each and every hour. If you
know that he or she is on the computer all day, send emails reminding
them that you love them. Send a message on the cell phone or call
your spouse just to say that you love them.
Hire a service that
specializes in skywriting. Have them write a special message to your
spouse in the sky! You’ll be outside when he or she sees your
message. Take a walk to the nearest pool, pond, or lake and go skinny-dipping!
Be outrageously in love with each other!
Post-it notes can be
addictive once you start using them. Use them to go overboard by leaving
post-it love notes everywhere! You don’t have to make them all
about love. You can make them silly notes, romantic poems quotes,
song lyrics, riddles, sexy and teasing notes or any other topic that
works for you and your spouse. You can post them all at once all over
or you can pace yourself daily, weekly, or monthly.
Your romantic nature
is naturally within you- you only need to discover where it is and
nurture it. Many times, romance leads to intimacy. Intimacy is very,
very romantic.
My good Marriage Sponsors;
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