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 Moving on Up!:
It is necessary to go through the
beginning steps or ‘level 1’ of romance in order to move
on to bigger and better levels of romance. After you’ve done
all of the traditional things most couples consider to be romantic
like chocolates, flowers, jewelry, lingerie, cards, perfume, movies
and dinner at fancy restaurants, you are only scratching the surface
of the world of romance. While the classics never go out of style,
they can become monotonous and lose their novelty. When you are putting
effort into being romantic, you will lose your original intent in
the monotony of your gestures without growth. If you have a desire
for your marriage to endure as well as prosper, you’ve got to
be willing to grow through the romantic process.
Once you have exhausted all of the
traditional ‘romantic’ gestures over a period of time,
you no doubt realized that timing had a great deal to with the outcome
of any romantic effort. When it comes to romance, timing is crucial.
In order to continue growing in the art of romance, you will have
to create an element of surprise in order to keep things fresh, exciting,
fun, and original. In order to create surprises, you will need to
work on perfecting your timing.
Timing also has another meaning as
your romance grows. You need to pay attention and be sensitive to
your partner’s involvement at the time of your gift. If he or
she is trying to lose weight, then you should never even consider
giving him or her chocolate or candy. If he or she is preoccupied
with work, they may not have the time to appreciate grand gesture
that you worked so hard to plan and you will both end up feeling frustrated
and disappointed at the results. Hold on to your big ideas until things
are a little less hectic in your lives so that both you and your spouse
can savor your romantic efforts.
Once you’ve moved into more
advanced levels of romance, you can do something that is so simply
yet should be very well received. Whenever you go to a party or other
social event, flirt with him or her just a little bit. Once you’ve
done this a few times, pretend you are living out a ‘pick-up’
fantasy with him or her but don’t let any of the other guests
know what is going on. Continue with your fantasy all the way home
(giggling is allow, but don’t let it spoil the mood!).
At the next social gathering, ‘pick
him or her up’ again, but continue with the fantasy at the party.
While you are at the party, sneak off together to have wild, passionate
sex. You will both probably talk about that night for some time to
come! (Especially if you get caught, so remember to lock the door!)
Once you’ve completed your romantic wooing, take a break for
a while before starting again. Imagine the build of anticipation for
the climax (pun is intended) of your game.
Take each hit and miss in your attempts
at romance as a learning experience. Everyday should be a lesson about
your spouse, who you are and the romance in your relationship.
 My good Marriage Sponsors;
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