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 More Planned Romance:
If you’ve made
the efforts to complete an entire week of romance with your spouse,
you may or may not have been able to come up with your own ideas.
If you find that you haven’t been bit with the romance inspiration
bug on your own, you can plan several weeks of romance for you and
your spouse with a few more suggestions. Once you’ve implemented
the ideas that work for you and you’ve been doing them for a
while, you are sure to be inspired with your own thoughts and ideas.
Start your week off
on Sunday and keep in mind that it is a wonderful day to remain low-key
and enjoy time alone with your spouse. Take a long walk without cell
phones, iPods, or any other distracting devices. Just you and your
spouse should take a walk and enjoy each other’s company. Hold
hands while you walk. You can also spend the day in your bedroom,
keep the curtains drawn, and light some candles. You are in charge
of whatever else happens there. On the other hand, you can spend the
entire day in bed with the curtains open and read the paper to each
other or watch movies all day. Eat your meals in bed. (Making love
is definitely an option as well!)
On Monday, wake up
with the birds. Enjoy a morning together without the normal rush you
typically go through. Go to a music store and buy a romantic CD to
present to your spouse. Enjoy it together before going to bed. Mondays
are also great for calling in sick to repeat an exceptional Sunday
again.
Tuesdays are great
days to wake up early and begin making love with your spouse. On another
Tuesday, try reading something you both find to be inspirational aloud.
As an alternative activity for particularly busy Tuesdays, send your
spouse loving thoughts by using mental telepathy. You don’t
think it works? Try it and you’ll see.
Wednesdays are always
difficult days of the week because they are only the halfway mark
to the anticipated weekend. Do something different like taking a class
together, give each other massages (or just give him or her massage)
or have dinner together. In fact, pack a picnic lunch, meet him or
her at work and either eat there or leave to eat at a park or even
in the car.
You must remember that
Thursday is always gift day. When you are at a store and you spot
something your spouse might enjoy or you know he or she will love,
you should start picking those items up and storing them for Thursdays.
You should never run out of gifts this way and you must never miss
gift day!
Friday is always a
day to look forward to! When your spouse comes home from work, have
‘your’ song playing on the radio. If you took dance classes
together on Wednesday, they will come in handy! Draw him or her bath
and share it together.
Saturday is your day
to be creative. Think about his or her favorite artist (music, painting,
sculpture, etc.) and buy them some of their work. Make love, but make
up some fun rules like you can’t open your eyes or you can’t
use your hands. Make a decadent dessert and feed it to each other.
Start all over again when you wake up Sunday morning!
To do things more than
once is wonderful if you both enjoy it. But make sure you aren’t
doing the same things too often. While you may be enjoying something,
your spouse may have already tired of it. It’s not romance when
only one of you has their heart in it.
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