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 Mood Makers:
Are you in the mood
for love? Maybe you’re not quite ready yet? Well, once you start
bringing romance back into your life or even if you’re trying
it out for the first time, you will start to experience a wonderful
new mood inspired by your new love affair with your spouse. Start
off slowly with the traditional romantic gestures like holding doors
open, flowers, candy, little love letters and special attention to
his or her needs. Once you make these romantic gestures habits in
your marriage, you will find that your appetite for more romance and
other similar moods will increase with time. You can satisfy your
appetite with some fun and sensuous as well as romantic ideas.
When you find that
you are ready to implement romantic acts into your daily routine with
your spouse, be creative with what you can come up with. For example,
you can buy decorative pillows for the bedroom with “Tonight”
and “Not Tonight” printed on either side. You can use
this as your own private signal for each other and your intentions.
Other couples will use more subtle indications as to their intentions
with you in the bedroom.
When you want to think
of your own, you can make up your own ‘code’ to say whenever
the mood strikes you. Maybe your wife will say “I’m getting
tired” and then you can say, “Well, then let’s get
you to bed.” Try something even more subtle like saying the
same word three times in the same sentence like ‘blue’
or another obvious word. Walk up to your partner and begin humming
‘your song’ in his or her ear. Pull a Carol Burnett and
tug on your ear lobe- whatever you both agree on will be a small form
of your own private foreplay that will make you want to rush home
and make love!
Sometimes it takes
something extra special that both you and your partner enjoy to get
in the mood like chocolate! Chocolate is one of the few things that
most men and women share a love for and never tire of. You can use
chocolate in a number of ways to spark romance or initiate a little
foreplay with your partner. You can always, of course, present your
spouse with a gift of their favorite chocolate and that is sometimes
enough to get him or her in the mood. Try bringing his or her favorite
chocolates to bed one night and feed each other. You can always be
selfish and only allow your spouse to lick off what melts on your
fingers. Also, you can ‘accidentally’ get some melted
chocolate on your spouse! Lick it off, say that it tastes so much
better on them, and do it again and again!
Make plans to take
a vacation completely focused on chocolate together! Two of the world’s
most famous chocolate factories are the Nestle chocolate factory in
Broc, Switzerland and the Hershey Chocolate factory in Hershey, Pennsylvania.
Some people even believe that chocolate is an aphrodisiac. Why not
test this theory on your own chocolate vacation fantasy?
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