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 Is Your Marriage a Companionship or a Love Affair?:
Every marriage is just like any relationship.
They have their ups and downs, agreements and disagreements and good
days and bad days. When you put two people from different backgrounds
with different ideas, feelings, and expectations together, you simply
can’t expect everything to be wonderful all of the time! While
some marriages have very serious problems that can only be solved
by intense focus and even therapy, most marriages simply become ‘stale’
or uninteresting.
It is important to reflect on exactly
what is causing any conflict or uneasiness in a marriage before acting
on it. In a great many marriages, the excitement and ‘take my
breath away’ feelings are fading or they are even gone. It doesn’t
mean that the love is gone. Love sometimes needs a little stimulation
in order to revisit and maintain the feelings we all crave and yearn
for. That stimulation is called ‘romance.’
Many people mistake a marriage that
seems to be ordinary or unexceptional as lacking love. It simply isn’t
the case! Most marriages do not lack love, but they do lack romance!
Love is easy and peaceful, while romance is what makes a relationship
hot and arousing.
Every single person on earth in any
type of relationship desires passion and romance in his or her life.
Unfortunately, there are a few things about romance most people don’t
understand. The most common problem in creating romance in a relationship
is that people simply don’t know how to do it! Other times,
people are fixed in cultural classifications and their partners are
unable to appreciate them for their own special and unique qualities.
Ultimately, some people have simply given up on their search for romance.
In a time where everything is convenient
and available almost at the touch of a button, the effort of romance
seems as if it takes a good deal of effort. It is very possible to
take some old-fashioned romantic ideas and make them work in a modern
world while maintaining the genuine intention behind each thought
and act. Romance today can be filled with unique ideas, creativity,
and passion. Romance is simply the way you express your love for another
person. It is vital to keeping love fresh, exciting, and alive. Without
romance, love can become tiresome and even worse.
The expression of love through romance
keeps it alive, fun, and worthwhile. Romance is only true, though,
when carried out with no ulterior motives. The only reason romance
should be initiated is in an attempt to show love and appreciation.
Romance with true intentions is when you want to show your mate that
you are thinking about them and they matter enough to make the effort
to bring your love to life through action.
Romance is more like an artistic creation
as opposed to an exact science. Those who tend to feel competitive
in almost everything they do will need to check that attitude at the
door when initiating romance. Love and romance should not be considered
a contest that should be outdone time and again. It should be considered
a cooperative activity. While love and romance take two in order to
work, you can be extremely romantic while still keeping your individuality.
Love and romance make perfect partners and can make you and your partner
‘perfect’ companions as well!
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