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 Couple’s Romance Cure:
Some couples are genuinely
motivated when it comes to creativity and romance. Others take a little
prompting and pushing. For those who want to be hopeless romantics
but work better when they have a simple guide to work by, there are
romance orders that can only lead you to your own couple’s romance
cure. Follow these steps and you might just find that you actually
enjoy some of your own ideas that spontaneously pop into you head!
Look at your spouse.
Really look at him or her. Make mental notes about all of the things
you find attractive and admire about your mate. If something crosses
your mind that could be considered negative, immediately erase it
from your mind. It doesn’t matter when you teach yourself to
focus on the good qualities. Start to compliment him or her several
times a day. Pace yourself and commit to giving him or her some compliment
at regular intervals like every four to six hours. If you have a watch
with a timer on it you can use that until you get in the habit of
doing it on your own, which will happen naturally.
Just as you take the
time to have at least three meals a day, make sure you tell your spouse
that you love them at least three times a day. Successfully romantic
couples know that the first thing they should say to each other in
the morning before anything else is “I love you” and they
mean it. They look into their partner’s eyes and make sure they
say that they love the other person with feeling. Begin your day by
telling you partner you love them and continue at your own discretion.
Another great action to accompany your expression of love or to be
used all on its own is to give your spouse a hug. Hug tightly, hug
gently, hug for a long time, hug quickly, but be sure to hug often.
When you have a problem
with your body, you often go to see a doctor to have it fixed or cured.
Treat romance in your relationship the same way a doctor would treat
a patient, except you are the doctor and your spouse is the patient.
While you are always welcome to play ‘doctor’ in the bedroom,
these are ideas that lead to creating romance both in and out of the
bedroom. Have you heard that the green M&M’s can help arouse
a person? While there is no scientific research to support such a
claim, it is a fun and interesting idea! Take an empty aspirin bottle
and fill it only with green M&M’s. Label it appropriately
including your spouse’s name, what the medication is any side
effects, dosage, how many refills are available and the doctor’s
name that prescribed the medication. Place it on his or her bedside
table or along with the other medications or daily vitamins they take.
Another version of
this idea is to take a bottle of a great smelling lotion or oil and
label it is if it should be used like a prescription. You might want
to select fragrances like vanilla or musk that are said to have an
aphrodisiac effect!
Whatever you choose
to do, it will no doubt inspire more and more romantic ideas for your
marriage. Once you have taken these ideas and your own have begun
to blossom, cherish each one, and make sure your spouse knows that
every single idea is strictly for him or her!
Once you begin being
romantic together, you may find you want to spend more and more time
together!
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