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 Celebrate Your Relationship:
If you are spending
time looking for ways in which you can improve your relationship,
you obviously love and care for your partner and what you want to
have together. Start your changes by celebrating your relationship!
Celebrate the joy of having met that one very special person, find
joy in the wonderful things that ‘click’ about you and
your spouse and celebrate what you are committed to building together.
You can celebrate any day at any time and you can also celebrate by
surprising your spouse.
On your next birthday,
celebrate your spouse and how he or she makes your existence better
by presenting him or her with a gift. He or she will be so surprised
that you might see a tear or two of joy fall.
Start paying attention
to what he or she likes. Really listen to what your spouse says, pay
attention to the items he or she says he would like to try someday
and get it for them. Don’t give it to your spouse immediately
and put the item away for a period of time. The period of time is
up to you- it could be a week or it could be a month. When you think
that he or she will no longer remember discussing the item with you,
present it to them as a gift.
Take over a chore or
daily task for your spouse without letting them know about your intentions.
Mow the lawn, washing the car, cook and clean up from meals or clean
the house- do something substantial for him or her. If you find that
he or she loved having the break from a particular task, do it over
and over again as often as you can.
One of the most recognizable
symbols of a celebration is a balloon! Fill your car with balloons
and take them home to him or her. Fill the living room before he or
she gets home from work. Make sure you have some balloons marked with
your names in hearts on them and some should have personal messages
written as well. Begin the celebration of your love today.
Start celebrating each
major and minor holiday with your spouse. Begin with New Year’s
Eve and do it big. Go to New York City and go to Times Square if that’s
as big as you can think! Valentine’s Day should be done as lavishly
as possible. On the Fourth of July, plan to attend the most extravagant
fireworks display you can find or plan on making fireworks of your
own at home. Always celebrate each other’s birthdays and do
it with flair. Your Anniversary should be a special day and celebrated
with an expensive bottle of your favorite drink. Get dressed up on
Halloween as your favorite fantasy characters and role-play for the
entire evening. Celebrate any and every day you want by staying home
from work and playing in bed. Celebrate as often of infrequently as
you want to, but make sure you take the time to play, surprise each
other, and celebrate your relationship.
While you celebrate
together, live together and love together, you shouldn’t be
making notes about who gave how much and how often. Romance is about
giving without expectation.
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