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 A Little Goes a Long Way:
Relationships are never
always easy. It is normal to hit some bumps in the road or to even
have long stretches where you and your partner have a hard time connecting.
Couples who are lucky enough to seem to get along more often than
not have probably discovered a little secret early on in their marriage.
That secret is to show love and affection in little ways often- not
always in big ways when things seem to be going badly or when an apology
is in order!
Imagine stopping on
the way home from work and picking wildflowers from alongside the
road for your spouse. She may have had a difficult day on the job,
the kids were trying her patience, or you both simply seem to have
lost your intimacy lately. If you were to walk in the door with a
fist full of wildflowers you took the time to select just for her
on the way home; you will have broken the surrounding atmosphere with
love and consideration. You both have the opportunity to start fresh
with that one, small yet powerful gesture.
If you are going out
of town or simply feel like ‘ships passing in the night’
because of kids, commitments or work, find a sun catcher, charm or
porcelain figure in the shape of a star or a shooting star. Wrap the
trinket in a small gift box and fold a note on top of it that says,
“Wish you were here” and place it in his or her travel
bag or even in a briefcase or purse. When he or she finds it and knows
that you are missing them and thought enough to share that sentiment,
it will stir emotions that may not have been awakened in some time.
In order to change
tedious or tired routines or to inspire intimacy, you might be surprised
at how little effort is required. Tape a note on the television that
says, “Wouldn’t you rather turn me on?” instead.
If he or she is enjoying a good book, remove the bookmark and replace
it with a note that says, “I bet you’ll never guess where
I’ve hidden your bookmark.”
Remember the small
things you used to do when you first got together that would make
your heart flutter and put a twinkle in your eye? Do them again! When
you go shopping, for a walk or you’re just sitting together
watching TV, hold hands, link arms or put your arm around her. Softly
whisper “Hey” into his or her ear and gaze lovingly into
each other’s eyes. If he or she wants to know what you are doing,
simply say that you are amazed at how much you love them.
These simple, small
acts can really go far when it comes to sparking a little romance
in your marriage. They can break the monotony of a relationship or
help your partner to feel appreciated and loved. You can expect to
feel the same in return!
Just as you shouldn’t
have reciprocal expectations when you give, you should be able to
recognize that your partner is always giving you something in return
just by being with you. He or she is your balance.
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